Aruna Jayathilake
Embracing a new culture
Q: How has your social life changed since moving to the UK?
A: Since moving to the UK, my social life has become more vibrant and diverse. I’ve met people from various backgrounds, participated in local events, and enjoyed the dynamic arts, sports and pub culture. The multicultural environment and emphasis on community have enriched social interactions, making my experience here incredibly fulfilling and enjoyable.
Q: And how did you adapt to the cultural differences between Sri Lanka and Britain?
A: Adapting to the cultural differences between Sri Lanka and Britain involved embracing new customs, foods and social norms.
I made an effort to learn about British traditions and etiquette, while also sharing my Sri Lankan culture with new friends and colleagues.
Socialising with work colleagues, and attending cultural and sporting events, helped me blend both worlds – and this has enriched my experience in the UK.
Q: What aspects of Sri Lankan culture do you miss the most while living in the UK?
A: I miss vibrant festivals such as Avurudu, Vesak, Christmas and Ramadan, as well as the warm community spirit and rich and flavourful Sri Lankan cuisine. And I long for the tropical climate and beautiful landscapes.
Most of all, I miss the gatherings of close-knit family and friends, and the sense of belonging that comes with being surrounded by familiar traditions and customs.
Q: How do you balance your professional responsibilities with your personal life?
A: Balancing one’s professional responsibilities and personal life calls for effective time management and setting clear boundaries. I prioritise tasks, focussing on what’s most important and urgent.
I also allocate time for relaxation and activities that I enjoy. Regular breaks and staying organised help me maintain productivity at work, while ensuring I have quality time with family and friends.
Q: What strategies do you adopt to unwind and relax after a hectic day at work?
A: To unwind after a hectic day, I visit the gym, listen to music (while enjoying a pint) and spend time with loved ones.
Practising mindfulness and engaging in hobbies like cooking also help me relax and recharge, ensuring a balanced work-life harmony.
Q: How often do you travel to Sri Lanka? And what memories do you have from your last visit here?
A: I travel to Sri Lanka at least once a year. My last visit was filled with warm memories of gatherings with family and friends, enjoying delicious local cuisine and visiting the beautiful beaches.
And I cherish the time spent reconnecting with my roots and the vibrant culture that I miss while living in the UK.
Q: And how do you stay connected with the Sri Lankan community in the UK?
A: I stay connected with the Sri Lankan community in the UK by participating in cultural, sports and musical events and festivals.
Additionally, I maintain close ties through social media and regular meet ups, which help me stay connected to my heritage and support fellow Sri Lankans abroad especially through my college old boys’ association (OBA) in the UK.
FACT FILE
SCHOOLING
Sri Sumangala College
HIGHER EDUCATION
University of Roehampton
Ulster University
PRESENT OCCUPATION
Head of Sales – Skywings Travel
COUNTRY OF RESIDENCE
UK
CITY OF RESIDENCE
London
CV IN A NUTSHELL
Aruna Jayathilake graduated with degrees in business management and economics from Ulster University and the University of Roehampton respectively.
He has a background in sports, having played cricket for Sri Sumangala College. This passion for cricket led Jayathilake to briefly play for the Panadura Sports Club before migrating to the UK.
His academic achievements and sporting experience have instilled in him a strong work ethic, and teamwork and leadership skills.
Jayathilake remains dedicated to his professional growth while staying connected to his roots. He is eager to leverage his education and experience to make meaningful contributions in his chosen field.